I am breastfeeding and my periods have not come back. How long is my iddah?
In all four schools, a woman whose periods have stopped because she is nursing still counts her iddah in periods (qurūʾ), not in months: she waits for them to return, however long that takes.1234 If she reaches the age of menopause first, she counts three months.134
What the four schools say
All four schools agree that nursing does not turn the iddah into three months; she waits for her periods. The Mālikī text adds a rule for after nursing ends.
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Ḥanafī الحنفية
A young woman whose clean time has gone on after she had menstruated counts by menstruations until she reaches the age of menopause.4 Al-Ḥaṣkafī names the nursing mother as an example of a woman whose clean time has extended.8
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Mālikī المالكية
She counts by qurūʾ and does not move to the year while she is nursing, however long or short. When nursing ends she counts qurūʾ, and if a year passes from the day she stopped nursing without a period, she is free.2
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Shāfiʿī الشافعية
A woman whose bleeding stopped for a cause, such as breastfeeding, waits until she menstruates, or until she reaches the age of menopause and then counts months.3
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Ḥanbalī الحنابلة
If she knows her periods stopped because of breastfeeding, illness or postnatal bleeding, she waits for that to pass and for the bleeding to return, however long, unless she reaches the age of menopause; then she counts three months. Ibn Qudāmah cites ʿUthmān, ʿAlī and Zayd in the case of a nursing wife who was held to be still in her iddah.1
What can change this
Sources
- 1
Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), 8:111
- 2
al-Dardīr, al-Sharḥ al-Kabīr ʿalā Mukhtaṣar Khalīl, with Ḥāshiyat al-Dasūqī (Mālikī), 2:470
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al-Nawawī, Minhāj al-Ṭālibīn (Shāfiʿī), p. 253
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Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār ʿalā al-Durr al-Mukhtār (Ḥanafī), 3:508
- 5
Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), 8:117
3 more sources, 6 to 8
- 6
Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), 8:109
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al-Dardīr, al-Sharḥ al-Kabīr ʿalā Mukhtaṣar Khalīl, with Ḥāshiyat al-Dasūqī (Mālikī), 2:470
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Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār ʿalā al-Durr al-Mukhtār (Ḥanafī), 3:510