I am past menopause, or I have never had periods. How long is my iddah after a divorce?
Three months, for a woman past menopause and for one who has never had a period: the Qurʾān says so and the scholars agree.12 If a period comes during those months, the count moves to periods (qurūʾ) instead.34
What the four schools say
All four schools agree on three months. They describe a little differently how to count when the divorce falls partway through a month.
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Ḥanafī الحنفية
Three months for a woman who does not menstruate because she is young, or because she is older and has reached the age of menopause. The months are counted by the crescent moon if the divorce was at the start of a month, and otherwise by days.910 A girl who starts menstruating during the months starts again with periods.6
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Mālikī المالكية
Three months for the woman past menstruation and for one who has never seen it. If the divorce fell partway through a month, that first month is completed to thirty days from the fourth.11 If a woman who can menstruate sees blood during the months, she moves to qurūʾ.4
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Shāfiʿī الشافعية
Three months. If the divorce fell partway through a month, two crescent months follow it and the broken month is completed to thirty days. If she menstruates during them, the qurūʾ become obligatory.12
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Ḥanbalī الحنابلة
Three months, by consensus. If the divorce fell partway through a month, she counts the rest of it, then two months by the crescent, then completes thirty days from the third.2 If a young girl menstruates during them, she moves to three qurūʾ.3
What can change this
- If you are pregnant, the iddah ends at delivery.5
- If you were counting periods and reached menopause during the iddah, the count moves to three months.36
- If your periods stopped for a reason (such as nursing) or for no known reason, and you are not past menopause, the three months do not simply apply; see those questions.78
Sources
- 1
Qurʾān, al-Ṭalāq 65:4
- 2
Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), 8:105
- 3
Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), 8:112
- 4
al-Dardīr, al-Sharḥ al-Kabīr ʿalā Mukhtaṣar Khalīl, with Ḥāshiyat al-Dasūqī (Mālikī), 2:473
- 5
Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), 8:117
7 more sources, 6 to 12
- 6
Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār ʿalā al-Durr al-Mukhtār (Ḥanafī), 3:515
- 7
Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), 8:111
- 8
Ibn Qudāmah, al-Mughnī (Ḥanbalī), 8:109
- 9
Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār ʿalā al-Durr al-Mukhtār (Ḥanafī), 3:507
- 10
Ibn ʿĀbidīn, Radd al-Muḥtār ʿalā al-Durr al-Mukhtār (Ḥanafī), 3:509
- 11
al-Dardīr, al-Sharḥ al-Kabīr ʿalā Mukhtaṣar Khalīl, with Ḥāshiyat al-Dasūqī (Mālikī), 2:470
- 12
al-Nawawī, Minhāj al-Ṭālibīn (Shāfiʿī), p. 253